I've done something stupid today...& discover some messages...
Maybe i shouldn't done this because it bring no harms to him but only me- myself...
Do i really need to care so much? Why cant i jus let it be...
Is that every relationship must change over time?
Why must a relationship turn into cool atmosphere compare to the sweet beginning...
Loss of passion, patient and cares... Even loss of love, the most important thing...
Normally, for a guy, it seems like love will become lesser when a relationship grow...
Their gentle action, tender words, sweetest kiss...All gone...
How long it takes?? One year? Half year? Or only one or two months???
Whereas, for a gal, it was first only begin with the so-called "feeling" and then turns into "love"...
Then, a gal will wait for the love to blossom..between them...
Yet, the outcome alwaz undisirable...
Guys will do many things to dissapoint a gal...
It's that because girls hard to serve or because they don't wan to take time to realize the needs of a girl?
A lot of questions come ahead over time...
Is the question "Does him still love me?" really important?
Or a girl can just act like nothing & being as happy as before?
GUYS!!!
Please take note!!!
If you do not really feel like loving a girl for a period as she wish to, do not go for her...
You gain your own happiness for the "sweet time" you assume, but it hurts badly to the girl when everything changed...
A short period of happiness will become a girl's unforgettable memories forever...
Hmmm...Wonder why am i so naive.............................
P/S: This is just my own experience & expressions... I know there might be some cases in which: guys hurt badly by a gal...so...forget bout it... :)
Maybe i shouldn't done this because it bring no harms to him but only me- myself...
Do i really need to care so much? Why cant i jus let it be...
Is that every relationship must change over time?
Why must a relationship turn into cool atmosphere compare to the sweet beginning...
Loss of passion, patient and cares... Even loss of love, the most important thing...
Normally, for a guy, it seems like love will become lesser when a relationship grow...
Their gentle action, tender words, sweetest kiss...All gone...
How long it takes?? One year? Half year? Or only one or two months???
Whereas, for a gal, it was first only begin with the so-called "feeling" and then turns into "love"...
Then, a gal will wait for the love to blossom..between them...
Yet, the outcome alwaz undisirable...
Guys will do many things to dissapoint a gal...
It's that because girls hard to serve or because they don't wan to take time to realize the needs of a girl?
A lot of questions come ahead over time...
Is the question "Does him still love me?" really important?
Or a girl can just act like nothing & being as happy as before?
GUYS!!!
Please take note!!!
If you do not really feel like loving a girl for a period as she wish to, do not go for her...
You gain your own happiness for the "sweet time" you assume, but it hurts badly to the girl when everything changed...
A short period of happiness will become a girl's unforgettable memories forever...
Hmmm...Wonder why am i so naive.............................
P/S: This is just my own experience & expressions... I know there might be some cases in which: guys hurt badly by a gal...so...forget bout it... :)
Everytime when i saw old couples walking hand in hand, it just come along with a smile on my face....SWEET isn't it??? This call "eternal love"....
8 comments:
Omg.. I understand exactly how you feel. Some guys just tend to care less as the relationship grows. Sighs. It makes us wonder whether are we still important anymore?
Well, it depends on the couple and the reaction that each other is giving! sometimes, it seems very one sided but at times we have to review our own self.
especially our own flaws that sometimes get in the way. the stuborness in each of us. sometimes we are just selfish enough to ignore the other party's feelings!!
most important thing about each other is communicating. are you guys talking about things concerning each other or about you or him? we place different values and priorties for each other. and sometimes it just can't be solved but carefully moving around the topic or situation to achieve understand!
relationship is fralige. but it can be strong if the bond and remember why both of you got together. like you said, things that were said and done cannot be easily forgotten! it does happen both ways.
maybe i have some feeling of lost for a period and i got to say out all this.. but if you believe in your relationship. hold on to your love you wish to have!
cheers,
George.
guys and girls might be different but in some ways.. they are the same.. Some girls might wondering why their "bf" or the one they love treat them badly.. But at the other side, some guys might be thinking the same thing too..
No matter what happen, you are you.. No one can really ruin ur future except you.
Any bad things happen, just treat it as an experience.. Without sadness, you won't see the happiness you are looking for.. Look forward.. Something good will be waiting for you..
Take care...
Ahuh...
you can clearly see how guys & gal react to my post...
Totally different right...?
Funny....
the answer is pretty much simple. if both guy and girl are feeling true love, both would feel the same pain and love. if either one is just on a puppy love, then he or she would gladly move on once the feeling is over. moving on is hard, but leave it to time. trust me :)Thats if you choose this road. If you choose to hang on then prepare yourself for whatever that's coming for you in the future, either good or bad.
Hey ryan here....... mr x is vry gd in a person to me...All i know is he need spaces, friends entertainment.... Play him like a kite, dun always show ur love to him 100%, but for now wat i see no matter wat u did u can't make him jealous, u might use a wrong way or might lead to disaster at the end.... So just hold him as u can but not too tight......lol.... Anyway we understand your feeling now, is GUY that duno how to appreciate wat u gals did for us.....
Did i say anything wrong?? haha...
Yee Miin,
it's ok...
im glad people giving their opinions... :)
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